No Strings Attached

I am afraid to admit that more and more women are joining the men in offering relationships with out strings attached. It all began from broken affairs of the heart that have yet to be mended. When a woman offers herself to a man in that manner she means that

it is okay for them to hang out now and then, scheduled and unscheduled sexual encounters either at his place  or her place but she would rather her comfort zone and when he leaves thats it. She has no interest in his personal affairs, she doesn’t need to call and text and seem interested in his day to day life, she doesnt have to worry about if he is cheating or"the other woman", why he is out late or why her calls go unanswered. To sum it up she is independent of his existence UNTIL she requires his "services" once more.

It is Simple NO strings attached.

The flip side to this is that it is an unhealthy form of relationship that looks healthy from the inside looking out. You entrust your self to someone who you have no intention of really getting to know. You entrust your self to someone whose mere purpose is sexual fulfillment. You could possibly end up falling for this person or the person falls for you. Then what?

Unhealthy it is when you consider the amount of partners you may be engaging with in such type of relationships. He may be the only person you have no strings attached with, however, he may be having many other strings attached to him therefore your lack of interest may result in serious health issues during or after you move on.

Yes at some point we do get hurt. Matters of the heart is not a walk in the park and trust me i have been down that road, but making meaningless relationships, lower your standards to ease the thought of being lonely certainly does that justify ones promiscuous behavour.

It is a personal choice at the end of the day this is just my two cents on the topic :) ~Dee Hunt